3 Steps to Creating Something Different With Your Life

How would you like to live your life?  What future do you want to live in?  How do you get there? 

In my first access class with Gary Douglas I heard him say everything your life is today is based on the choices you have made. When I heard this, I thought to myself if I can create this pile of crap life, I wonder what else I can create?

I started to see what the choices I was making created in my life. Every choice creates something, so I started to look at what does this choice create? When you get that you are the creator of everything in your life, the good, the bad and the ugly you start to see that by making a different choice you can change the course of your life.

When I first started making some of these choices, I was a tradie which is Aussie slang for tradesman, I had lots of debt and was living in the spare bedroom of my mum’s house with my son. Now I have a very different reality and the way I got to creating something different was by making some different choices.

If you would like to create something different with your life, there are a few things you are going to have to be willing to do and be.

FIRST

The first is to be brutally honest with yourself about what you are choosing and what that is creating. Until you get clear on what your choices are creating you are going to be taking stabs in the dark without ever really acknowledging what is. If you're looking for how your choices are right or wrong, you will have to defend your choices rather than seeing them as they are. So be willing to see them as they are with no judgment of yourself or anyone else.

SECOND

The next step is to start making different choices. This bit can be uncomfortable, but you can do it. What if every time you got uncomfortable that was the indication that you are heading in the correct direction? When something comes up in my life that I have been avoiding, I like to run towards it rather than away from it. When you make a different choice, you start to open the doors to other choices and possibilities becoming available. It’s not as hard as you think it is, it’s just making a choice you have never made before and seeing what that choice creates. Again, you can’t get choice right or wrong you can only choose and get the awareness of what that choice creates.

THIRD

Last but not least is the big R word, receiving. Once you make a different choice the universe starts to rearrange itself to accommodate what you’re asking for and what you are choosing. And you have to do a really terrible thing, which is relax and receive. This is about allowing the contribution the universe desires to be for you.

So there you have it, choice creates everything! So what would you like to choose?

PS. I have an upcoming 8-month Zoom series called the C-Word starting April 15th, check it out here!